{"id":761,"date":"2019-05-29T18:24:47","date_gmt":"2019-05-29T18:24:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/butterflyeffectscounseling.com\/?p=761"},"modified":"2019-07-23T10:42:55","modified_gmt":"2019-07-23T10:42:55","slug":"understanding-everest","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/butterflyeffectscounseling.com\/?p=761","title":{"rendered":"Understanding Everest"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/miro.medium.com\/max\/875\/0*A4FlQI5Pp601Ib_y\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I have been reading the news, trying to make sense of what\nis going on right now on Mt. Everest. Eleven deaths so far this year and bad\nweather has led to fewer days to make the summit. Long lines in the \u201cDeath\nZone\u201d waiting to get to the top have upped the ante in what was already\nextremely dangerous conditions. I am not a mountaineer, but I ponder what\ndrives this extreme risk taking, even when faced with information suggesting it\nis not a risk worth taking. I read one description from someone who was there, who\ncompares the mindset on the mountain to the depiction in the Lord of the flies.\nEvery man for himself. A refusal to share water and supplies, stepping over\nfrozen bodies left behind from earlier expeditions and accusations that\ninexperienced climbers are to blame for the carnage on the mountain. Reports of\npushing and shoving to take selfies and the heart-breaking absence of basic\nhumanity. Abject chaos. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There have been communications sent from Mt Everest\nacknowledging the long lines to summit and the recognition of how dangerous the\ncurrent conditions are to reach the top. So, why would someone not take heed\nand push ahead anyway? A need so potent you are willing to forego rational\njudgment in assessing the risk. So often, when this level of unconscious\ndecision making is going on, it stems from somewhere in our past. The kind of\ndesperation to prove something to ourselves and the world, a defiance of our\nown vulnerability and mortality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I keep thinking, if I could understand the psychology behind what fuels the need to reach the top of this mountain, <g class=\"gr_ gr_11 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Grammar only-ins replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"11\" data-gr-id=\"11\">regardless<\/g> the cost, I would understand something important about the human condition. I mean, I get the need to push ourselves, overcome challenges and see beyond our perceived limitations. But honestly, this seems like something altogether different. What does it mean when we are driven by the unseen forces of our own unconscious? For most of us, the consequences are not quite so life and death. A failed relationship, missed opportunities, regrets for what we should have done or could have been. But with the continued opportunity to make our unconscious patterns conscious, and lead happier more fulfilled lives. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I think of the countless hours of preparation required to make\nthe climb, the cardiovascular training, mountaineering experience, high\naltitude tolerance, and increased strength needed. Recommendations include running\non a treadmill with 50-60lbs rucksack if you don\u2019t have access to hilly terrain\nto train and prepare. There is an inordinate amount of preparation required to\nmeet this challenging goal. So, why would we not recommend an equal amount of\nmental preparation and months of therapy to understand the confluence of\nexperiences that led to this decision to take on such a monumental task as\nclimbing Mt. Everest? &nbsp;To help build the\nemotional confidence that the decisions you make will be thoughtful, measured\nand well thought through when so much is hanging in the balance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I mean shouldn\u2019t we want to know if early childhood trauma or an overwhelming sense of powerlessness set us on a path to prove some measure of invulnerability to the capriciousness of life? Or how that chronic, nagging feeling that life was always just out of our control prodded our decision? These unconscious motives do not just affect us, they impact the lives of everyone around us. From the other climbers on Mt. Everest to the families that were left behind. If I was up on that mountain, relying on my fellow climbers to successfully navigate our way to the summit, I would want to know they had the ability to make dispassionate, reasoned decisions every step of the way and were not attempting to fix something deep in their psyche that no mountaintop has the capacity to  <g class=\"gr_ gr_13 gr-alert gr_gramm gr_inline_cards gr_run_anim Grammar only-ins replaceWithoutSep\" id=\"13\" data-gr-id=\"13\">heal<\/g>. <strong>\u201cThe only Zen you find on the tops of mountains is the Zen you bring up there.\u201d \u2013 Robert M. Pirsig. &nbsp;<\/strong>Maybe we should be making sure that we have all the Zen we need long before we ever set foot on that mountain.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have been reading the news, trying to make sense of what is going on right now on Mt. Everest. Eleven deaths so far this year and bad weather has led to fewer days to make the summit. 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